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MODERN LOVE ADV06
(NYT5) UNDATED -- April 4, 2008 -- MODERN-LOVE-ADV06 -- An essay from the upcoming book "Split: A Memoir of Divorce." (Illustration by David Chelsea/The New York Times)**ONLY FOR USE WITH STORY BY SUZANNE FINNAMORE SLUGGED: MODERN-LOVE. ALL OTHER USE PROHIBITED.**